Why is it best for you to confess your own sin?

The wave of sexual misconduct allegations is something the likes of which we have not seen. There’s a lot of good coming out of this exposing of sin—terrible sin, overwhelmingly against women. Healing is happening because of this exposure. But a deeper healing is possible if only the offender would take the first step. After 10 years of ministry to women at Harvest USA, Ellen Dykas shares her thoughts on one key way to respond biblically.

In a culture where conversations around sexuality are constantly shifting, we need to return to what is unchanging: the truth of God’s Word. One of the most powerful responses we can offer in the face of sin is not just commentary or critique—but the willingness to confess your own sin. Public exposure may spark awareness, but genuine healing begins with personal humility.

When someone chooses to confess your own sin, it signals more than just remorse—it reflects an understanding of the gospel. True repentance involves owning what’s been done, seeking forgiveness, and turning toward Christ. This is the kind of transformation that goes deeper than headlines and hashtags—it’s heart-level change.

If we as the Church are going to lead well in this moment, we must model what it looks like to confess your own sin rather than waiting to be confronted. Only then can we point others to the healing and redemption found in Jesus.

Read more on what Ellen is saying on her blog: Confession: Better Than Allegations.